Meditation for May 8th, 2016
Yes, She Really is a Lesbian
Some lesbians’ look like lesbians and others don’t. Some lesbians are very masculine and other lesbians are very feminine. Some lesbians have been with men before and others have never been with any men. Some lesbians are loud and proud feminists and others don’t strongly voice their opinions. Some lesbians are even republicans. Some lesbians will even date a man now and then.
The one thing that all lesbians have in common is that they are lesbians.
A lesbian isn’t made by a bad sexual experience. A bad sexual experience could have been made a process begin for someone to find herself possible, but like I said, a lesbian is a lesbian. A lesbian doesn’t choose to become a lesbian just to take down the patriarchal society, but it could have been a catalyst to finding oneself by being disgusted by an oppressive society.
A lesbian didn’t become a lesbian because in the time they did date men, they never met the “right dick”. There is no such thing as the “right dick”. If you love someone with a dick, then you might find yourself loving that particular dick, but a lesbian became a lesbian because they are a lesbian not because they were unaware that there is a perfect dick out there.
Lesbians aren’t made by two women in sexy lingerie hanging out in bed together and since neither of them have a man available at that very moment and they become horny and decide to compare each others boobs. “No, you have the perfect boobs, mine are too big!” Then they start making out, eating each other out and then finishing up with a nice scissor sesh. Then they buy a Subaru, move in together and get a golden retriever and a bunch of pillows for their bed and begin nesting. The first half is how lesbian porn for straight guys start and the second half is me stereotyping lesbian couples.
No, you are not a lesbian in a man’s body. Unless you are, then you should talk to a therapist about getting gender reassignment surgery.
A lesbian doesn’t want to be a man. There isn’t a “man” role and a “woman’s” role in a lesbian relationship. If there is, it’s none of our business. The butch lesbian isn’t pretending to be a man. This is just who a butch lesbian is. There is no reason other than perhaps a long history of oppression and keeping their true identity in the shadows for thousands of years, but I am guessing which isn’t smart.
A lesbian can be a good parent. A lesbian couple can be good parents. Lesbians can and do want children. There is no need for a man to be involved. It isn’t a scourge on God’s nature for two lesbians to raise and nurture children. It’s also okay for a lesbian to not have or want kids. It’s ok for a couple to want things other than kids to define their relationship. A relationship is for the people involved to define themselves and it doesn’t have to exist on TV, in ancient mythological books or what you think as an amateur psychologist.
Prayer
Lesbos,
I pray to you as a man.
I see two mothers instead of one.
Myth and legend always depicts one mother as this all-powerful feminine force that controls and nurtures nature.
Why not have two mothers?
That’s double the mothers’ love.
That’s twice the Goddesses.
That’s less war and rational thought on emotional creatures.
That’s less making a person a number and more of a child of Goddesses.
Maybe if we got rid of the male God,
We would live in peace and harmony.
There would be less reliance of power and wealth.
There would be less flexing of phallic powers.
We would be held and loved twice the amount we are now which isn’t enough.
So, Lesbos, kill Yahweh,
And become Mother Nature’s wife.
Only if you want and are single.
Now I realize I’m doing that straight person thing where I assume you’re a lesbian and Mother Nature is a lesbian you guys should date since I keep assuming just being a lesbian is the only prerequisite for two lesbians to date when it is actually just as complicated if not more complicated as straight people trying to date.
Sorry.
She is hot though.
Amen.
Craft
Making a pillow
You will need:
Fabric
Pillow inserts
Brown paper
Square or yardstick
Tape measure
Pencil or the blood of a virgin
Thread
Needle
Scissors
Straight pins
Sewing machine
First: measure pillow insert. Measure both height and width.
Second: Create pattern. Adding two inches to the height and width, draw the outline on the brown paper using the pencil or the blood of a virgin. Cut out the pattern.
Third: Choose pattern placement. Putting the brown paper on the fabric you can cut out the fabric.
Fourth: Do the same for pillow back.
Fifth: Pin the back and front together with pins.
Sixth: Sew the front and back together. Allow for one-inch seam allowance and leave a five-inch opening to insert pillow on the bottom.
Seventh: Trim edges to ½ inch.
Eighth: Using an iron, press the material.
Ninth: Insert pillow.
Tenth: Sew close the opening.
You now have another pillow for your home. Fun!
Goal
I don’t know anything, I’m a cis-male, but I do know that I should let people be who they are or who they think they are. It’s not up to me to decide what is real and what is not for another person.
Love is love.